Whew, guys? I'm freakin' overwhelmed. I'm not great at the whole "taking care of myself" thing. Part of that comes from being socialized female, which twists the "taking care of oneself" bit until it seems like it can only come on the heels of "taking care of everyone else (even when they haven't asked for your help and don't want it)". Partly because I've got this bone-deep sensation that I should have been left on the side of the road as an infant and not cursed the world with my presence. (Oh, sure, I know that's not actually true. Mostly.