Okay, so, I'm OCD. Not cute "oh, ze washes zir hands a lot" OCD. (I don't actually think the hand washing is cute; my commentary is about how it's seen as a sort of designer quirk that has no down side. If you've ever met anyone who makes with the compulsive hand washing, you'll have noted that it ain't that cute. And there are definitely down sides.) Anyway. One of the things about the way OCD manifests in my world is that I have to be very, very careful about routines. Very careful. The kid didn't get a bedtime until she started